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Breathing and Relaxation Techniques

Breathing and relaxation techniques are closely connected.

Have you noticed that when you feel a bit frazzled and out of balance that your breathing speeds up? It probably gets more rapid and shallow. This is a typical stress symptom.

One of the simplest and most effective techniques to counter the effects of stress is right under our noses.

Deep breathing has been a foundation of yoga and tai chi exercises for thousands of years and is the basis of many relaxation exercises.

Here I provide a breathing relaxation technique that can give you quick stress relief in a matter of seconds.

The Quieting Reflex

This breathing and relaxation technique is adapted from Dr Charles Stroebel, a psychologist and expert in stress management at Yale University.

When stressed there are a number of physiological reactions that characterize the fight or flight response.

These include a number of stress symptoms such as increased vigilance, muscle tension, increased breathing rate and a drop in temperature in the hands and feet.

To interrupt this stress response, Dr Stroebel developed a relaxation breathing technique. With practice he says that the Quieting Reflex can relax you in 6 seconds.

Breathing Relaxation Technique: The Quieting Reflex

  1. Notice what situation is is triggering your stress symptoms.
  2. Break into a big, sparkly smile. If you are in a public place then this can be an inward smile. This triggers an endorphin release.
  3. Make a positive affirmation – for example “Body calm Mind alert” or "I can do this". This counters the typical negative thoughts that may accompany stress.
  4. Take an easy deep breath. Imagine this diaphragmatic breath coming up through the soles of your feet and filling your abdomen.
  5. As you exhale, let your jaw go lose, unclench your teeth and allow your shoulders to relax. Imagine a wave of warmth flowing through your body.
  6. Continue with normal activity.


The Quieting Reflex is done with your eyes open.

It only takes 6 seconds so practice at work, practice while you are waiting in line or any other place.

I like to use reminders. Every time my cell rings I do Quieting Reflex whenever.

Several months of daily practice, up to 100 times a day (that’s only 10 minutes), the Quieting Reflex is argued to counter the stress response.

The Quieting Reflex has been shown to be effective for stress headaches or migraine headache relief, sleep problems, increased blood pressure and for people who have the fight or flight response activated often.

Other breathing and relaxation techniques

Here are some more breathing and relaxation techniques that you can use to counter stress and promote a calm and relaxed feeling.

Diaphragmatic breathing for relaxation

diaphragmatic breathing

Diaphragmatic breathing is a simple and effective way to reduce stress and promote health. This breathing technique is used in yoga, tai chi and many other relaxation techniques. Follow these simple steps to diaphragmatic breathing which can help to manage stress.


More breathing techniques for quick stress reduction

Next time you are stressed take note of your breathing rate. You will probably note that your breathing has become more rapid and shallow. This is a typical stress symptom. I have used this breathing technique with clients who have found it useful before public speaking, big notch performances and exams.


Deep breathing exercises and relaxation techniques

deep breathing exercises

Deep breathing exercises are used widely in various relaxation exercises. These breathing exercises provide a deep sense of calmness and serenity. Requiring daily practice for the best benefits, these deep breathing exercises will provide stress relief for you.


Reduce stress with mindful meditation

This mindful meditation breathing technique cultivates awareness of the present moment. Rather than worry about the past or the future, this mindful breathing meditation brings your focus back to the breath.

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